Saturday, May 3, 2008

My Family is Spoiled

Okay, why are they spoiled because everytime they asked from me I will give it to them. They are spoiled now. I don't even have a job here they kept on asking me money...They don't know that I don't really have money here. Because I don't have a job. Life in Philippines is getting harder and harder specially for those people that are lazy that doesn't want to work. So the other day my sister wants me to buy her a motorcyle but I told her nope! I ain't gonna buy you one and why she needs motorcyle? Because she is getting lazy to walk. Hhmmmm,, She dont need motorcyle..that eats money too.

She wants me to buy her motorcyle for what? To go to school? and tell her friends that Look I have motorcyle I am rich now.Doh???

4 comments:

morenorosalita72 said...

Madx tama ang desisyon mo na hwag bumili.hindi sa kinakampihankita pero siguro kelangan matutonan nila na things will earn through hard working.hindi porket meron ka eh aasa nlang sila.Ganyan din nman ako pag mga bagay na alam kong hindi nman talaga kelangan di ko binibigay at maari pang pagmulan ng disgrasya di bali na sila magalit someday maintindihan din nila y? na kahit kaya mo nman pero hindi mo binigay..pero ung humingi sila sa akin na pambili ng kalabaw worth P8,000.00 hindi ako nagdalawang isip binigay ko agad kc lam ko talagang kelangan at i see na wala nman maidudulot na masama or something bad to them na talagang mapapakinabangan nman ng walang masamang epekto.Hanga me sau kc kahit na kaya mo nman talaga meron ka pa ring paninindigan at marunong ka maninbang ng tama at mali kahit na di nila kaw maintindihan. Keep up the good work always sa tama lang lagi ang panigan mo we both know that God will always be with you. take care ang God bless you always.

coolingstar9 said...

I feel sad to hear that, hope you can a job to support your family.
Have a wonderful life.
From: coolingstar9

Pem said...

thanks for the comments. I don't have a real job because I have a full time job. A mother of two..

nywya, Te, yeah ur right..u know before we buy them carabao too,, then nobody use it. Mama asked for it before when james was there but james is lazy he went to manila then what happened to carabao? we sold it. we bought it for 13,000 and we sold it for 15,000 and they spend that money for nothing..

and this month of may fiesta in bilar mama asked me again I gaved them..they are spoiled brat..and then my sister kept on asking me..hays..so I told them now that I can't give y'all everything you want..they don't know life in America is not easy too..

I gaved them money every month and they still want more..

Anonymous said...

It would be nice to help everyone that needs help. But that is not realistic. It is difficult when families in the Philippines have a distorted view of "rich" America and expect those that live here to make them "rich" also. It is a struggle to raise a family here in America without the burden of raising one in another country as well. Sometimes it is necessary to concentrate on our families here and to guard ourselves against the intense pressure and guilt of those that are suffering elsewhere. It can end up hurting our own families in an attempt to try and over extend our good nature and our generosity to others , sacrificing our own families in this somewhat never ending and futile attempt. Sometimes it is necessary to "let go" of the past and work to make the best out of our present and future. We can't let others manipulate and makes us feel guilty when we can't help as much as they expect us too.

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